This goes out to those of you who walk around saying you’re not happy with this or that in your life. What you have and what you want and/or need are not in alignment. You want change.
What would it be like if you got the change what you wanted? Do you even have an idea?
What does fulfilled look like for you?
(You are wasting precious time if you don’t even have a clue as to what you really are looking for.)
What does fulfilled feel like? Smell like? Taste like? Sound like?
Life is a sensory experience. When determining what “fulfilled” is like, you need to explore it and define it on every sensory level.
It was said, I believe by Stephen Covey, that highly effective people begin with the “end” in mind. Others, like Oprah for example, do a lot of talking about “intention” setting, i.e., setting the idea in your mind of what you intend to get from an experience.
Intention setting…beginning with the end in mind…it’s effective. And it definitely feels better than floating around unhappy and unsatisfied without a clue as to what you want.
Figuring out what fulfilled will be like for you is just step 1 in living that “dream” life. It’s important to have an idea, because this informs all the other steps.
So start! Write some ideas down, create a vision board, save images that look like fulfilled – whatever you can do to get inspired and connected to the fulfilled experience.
And if you need help, of course, you can call on me.